What is your current relationship status? very much attatched and in love
What is your sexual orientation? gay
What sort of people do you like, as far as what their interests are in life? someone who makes me laugh,not particularily a social butterfly,someone i can be silent with and still comfy.
What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest? as long as they dont look like a bloke then im not really choosy.
What kind of fashion-sense attracts you? dunno really.
What kind of hair style do you find attractive on a potential mate? not a spiky dyky
What is the usual age range you look at? older women apparently.
What traits turn you off?
snobbery,shallowness,unfaithfulness,lyin
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Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly? i like monogomous relationships.
Are you afraid to ask people out on dates? yes.
If you're single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?
What are the positive points about being single? being hairy....lol...i like that one!
What are the negative points about being single? no cuddles :(
When single, do you often find yourself longing for companionship? yes...very much so...im a real snuggle bunny and hate having no one to cuddle up with,
How well do you handle rejection? not too well.
Do you miss your last sweetie? sometimes...but she did a good job of making me hate her before she totally fucked off into the sunset(or stepfordville as i prefer to call it)
Do you think it's better to look for love or let it find you? let it find you,sometimes its there right on your doorstep but you just dont realize it.
What's the longest relationship you've ever been in? the one im in now.
The shortest? a few weeks.
Do you think couples should spend a very large amount of time together or space things out a tad? depends on who they are...i could happily spend all my time with K and still not get fed up with her...we do our own things while together...if that makes sense?!
Have you ever found yourself worrying about commitment? no.
When involved with a person, do you try to think about the here and now or do you often think of the future? depends who im with...i quickly realized with my previous partner there was no future for us so concentrated on just enjoying the moment...shame she couldnt be bothered to do that either.
How do you prefer to handle disagreements? talk about them.
How do you feel when your mate is mad at you and won't tell you why? i hate it and need to know what i have done to piss her off.
Do you have a crush right now? Do they know? only on my partner.
What's the longest period of time you've ever had a crush? yrs...have crushed on pink forever me thinks...lol.
Have you ever confessed your feelings to a crush? yes...eventually i told K...when i couldnt ignore feelings any longer.
Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush? no...
Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you? k...eventually she told me...things were getting too strange between us to ignore any longer.
How do you feel about long-distance relationships? i used to think they could work...now i dont...they suck.
Have you ever pined for someone when you're not around them? of course!
Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already? yes...i have and am.
What would you do if you got pregnant while in a relationship?
want to know how!...and be amazed at K's ability to get me pregnant...lol...shes good but not that good!
Would you get involved with someone if they were previously married? yes...
How big of an issue is religion to your compatibility? not an issue as long as im not pushed or preached at.
How big of an issue to you is your mate's ethnicity?
while im not racist i dont think i would be attracted to an ethnic person.
In a potential mate, how important is intelligence to you? as long as we could have a conversation then thats cool...im not exactly mastermind myself.
In a potential mate, how important is a sense of humor to you? very!...a lot of people dont see k's humour but trust me she cracks me up daily and has a very dry wit about her.
What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face? seeing k walk in the door.
What was your first kiss like? i kissed her...spent all evening trying to get her to kiss me and in the end i gave up and pounced on her...was usual first kiss...bit awkward but we very soon got it together and now her kisses make my toes curl and belly flutter.
What part of a person's body do you find most attractive? depends on the person.
What's the first thing you look at when you look at someone you're attracted to? their eyes...
How important are the looks of a mate's face to you? i dont want to be ashamed to walk down the road with a person...shallow eh!
How important are the looks of a mate's body to you? not...its a person i love...not their body shape....and bearing in mind im grossel;y obese anyway im in no place to judge.
When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other? depends..i made the first move with k...
Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren't seriously involved with? yeh...who hasnt?
Were you single at the time? yeah.
What are your ticklish areas? under arms.
What do you most like about making out? tis fun...
Are you a virgin? nah...
If not, would you consider your first time to have been a good one? nope...was crap.
How old were you when you lost your virginity?pass.
Have you ever had sex with someone you loved? yes.
Have you ever turned down an offer for sex? yes..
How much do you think sex changes a relationship? if sex was crap it would cause probs in a relationship.
On a scale from 1 to 10 [10 being the highest] how would you rate your sexual attractiveness? dunno.
On a scale from 1 to 10 [10 being highest]
How do you feel about casual sex? im too old for it now...but its had its place in my life.
Would you stay with a lover if the love stopped but the sex was still enjoyable? no
Would you stay with a lover if the sex stopped/got boring but there was still love? i have but dont think i could do it indefinately.
Do you believe in love? yes.
Do you believe in love at first sight? yes
Has someone ever told you they loved you? yes...im told it every day.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and meant it? yes...i wouldnt say it otherwise.
Have you ever told someone you loved them and not meant it? no.
Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships? monogomous.
Have you ever been married? no.
How do you feel about marriage? i will marry k one day...fact!
If you're currently not married, do you foresee yourself ever tying the knot? yes...as much as we can do anyway.
Do you plan on having children someday? we have 5 between us already...think thats enough!
Have you ever had your heart broken? god yes!
Have you ever been dumped? yes...
Have you ever dumped someone? yes...
Have you ever mutually broken up with someone? yes...
Has a romantic companion ever made you cry? yes...
Have you ever made a romantic companion cry? yep...
Have you ever had an emotional pain so bad it made you sick or physically hurt? yes...
Have you ever been unfaithful? no...
Have you ever been cheated on? yes...
Have you ever learned an important lesson as a result of a break up? yep...dont trust anyone if they say they want to remain friends.
Have you ever gotten back together with someone after breaking up? briefly...
Did it work? no and i always knew it wouldnt work...but it was fun for a while...
Do you believe there's hope for people after they get back together or do you think the same problems that caused the initial break up will resurface? i think if you have broken up then stay broken up...too much trust gets lost in the split.
Have you ever broken up with someone and remained friends afterward? for a while...but then she decided to shit on me from a great height with no explination...and that sucked.
Have you ever broken up with someone and become bitter enemies? no.
If so, did you ever made amends?
Have you ever broken up with someone and lost touch? yes...
Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication? no..
Were you afraid to do so?
Do you ever check up on old flames without actually contacting them? i would like to know how my ex is doing and if she is happy with her choices but wouldnt try cus i couldnt cope with the rejection that will occur if i tried.
If you've ever lost touch or went sour with someone you loved, how did it make you feel? worthless,hurt and confused.
Have you ever longed to get back together with someone? no.
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